Comments for Bizarre Marriage http://www.bizarremarriage.com can't be this perfect! Sat, 07 Jan 2012 12:08:59 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.3.1 Comment on Getting Married in Austria by Myla http://www.bizarremarriage.com/index.php/2008/04/10/getting-married-in-austria/comment-page-1/#comment-10923 Myla Sat, 07 Jan 2012 12:08:59 +0000 http://www.bizarremarriage.com/?p=30#comment-10923 Hello Bena, if he would like to take you with him to austria after you your marriage there in the philippines, it would be him who will have to prove that he is "capable" of taking you with him to austria. he should be the one to prove that he can finance your stay here. he will be the one showing bank statements or salary slip to the austrian government not you. hope this help. myla Hello Bena,

if he would like to take you with him to austria after you your marriage there in the philippines, it would be him who will have to prove that he is “capable” of taking you with him to austria. he should be the one to prove that he can finance your stay here. he will be the one showing bank statements or salary slip to the austrian government not you.

hope this help.
myla

]]> Comment on Getting Married in Austria by bena http://www.bizarremarriage.com/index.php/2008/04/10/getting-married-in-austria/comment-page-1/#comment-10899 bena Fri, 06 Jan 2012 10:11:39 +0000 http://www.bizarremarriage.com/?p=30#comment-10899 hi myla, me and my boyfriend are planning to get married in june. At first we talked about him inviting me over to austria, the "visit visa". At first i thought that it's somewhat similar to a "tourist visa" we at first planned not to get married at first, but then when he visited me he popped the question and so now we're planning to get married here first and then process all papers so that I can come with him to austria. my question that is related to your blog is that, how did you prove that you are capable? Because in my case, I am a nursing graduate and a registered nurse, and currently I am self employed and working online as a part time korean teacher. In addition, my family is not well off so it means I earn very little online, and I do volunteer work as a nurse. Are there other ways of proving that I am capable? what do I need? The only thing I have is a bank account. I would deeply appreciate your response. thank you so much. hi myla,

me and my boyfriend are planning to get married in june. At first we talked about him inviting me over to austria, the “visit visa”. At first i thought that it’s somewhat similar to a “tourist visa”

we at first planned not to get married at first, but then when he visited me he popped the question and so now we’re planning to get married here first and then process all papers so that I can come with him to austria.

my question that is related to your blog is that, how did you prove that you are capable? Because in my case, I am a nursing graduate and a registered nurse, and currently I am self employed and working online as a part time korean teacher. In addition, my family is not well off so it means I earn very little online, and I do volunteer work as a nurse. Are there other ways of proving that I am capable? what do I need? The only thing I have is a bank account.

I would deeply appreciate your response. thank you so much.

]]> Comment on Taming a Sulking Filipina by Walther http://www.bizarremarriage.com/index.php/2008/03/27/taming-a-sulking-filipina/comment-page-1/#comment-10471 Walther Mon, 05 Dec 2011 15:28:50 +0000 http://www.bizarremarriage.com/index.php/2008/03/27/taming-a-sulking-filipina/#comment-10471 "Matt" is totally right. If your wife is upset about something, she should simply discuss it with you. No need for either angry shouting nor the silence treatment. Just tell your husband what it is that is bothering you, because often he might not even have a clue he did or said something that offended you. An open conversation between adults, and no teenage sulking nonsense please. The guy will be able to either apologize and adjust his future behavior or (in case of some misunderstanding) explain the wife why he did or said something and what he really meant by it. But by punishing your husband by means of tantrum, sulking or some silence treatment, is just plain RUDE and serves no purpose in solving the problem. Don't act like a 14 year old spoiled teenage brat, but like an adult and have an open, honest talk with your partner. Matt hits the nail on the head where he says that tampo is a passive aggressive strategy to control the husband. Don't reward this kind of behavior or she'll do it all the time! What to do then? Easy: give them the exact same silent treatment back and just do your thing like you don't care. Just until she will come to her senses and tell what's bothering her. “Matt” is totally right. If your wife is upset about something, she should simply discuss it with you. No need for either angry shouting nor the silence treatment. Just tell your husband what it is that is bothering you, because often he might not even have a clue he did or said something that offended you. An open conversation between adults, and no teenage sulking nonsense please. The guy will be able to either apologize and adjust his future behavior or (in case of some misunderstanding) explain the wife why he did or said something and what he really meant by it. But by punishing your husband by means of tantrum, sulking or some silence treatment, is just plain RUDE and serves no purpose in solving the problem. Don’t act like a 14 year old spoiled teenage brat, but like an adult and have an open, honest talk with your partner. Matt hits the nail on the head where he says that tampo is a passive aggressive strategy to control the husband. Don’t reward this kind of behavior or she’ll do it all the time! What to do then? Easy: give them the exact same silent treatment back and just do your thing like you don’t care. Just until she will come to her senses and tell what’s bothering her.

]]> Comment on Documents Needed to Get Married by maria http://www.bizarremarriage.com/index.php/2008/03/13/documents-needed-to-get-married/comment-page-1/#comment-9889 maria Sun, 16 Oct 2011 14:59:37 +0000 http://www.bizarremarriage.com/2008/03/13/documents-needed-to-get-married/#comment-9889 nice to hear from kababayan and shared expereinced , have problem about visa almost 4 weeks still waiting . Can somedy shared expereinced about applying visa : How long it takes be ready . Bored talaga mag antay mabuti kung meron Visa. It say 21 days but no text or email till now. Kahit cal mo sila dedma lang sila kaya sayang alng ang pera.. nice to hear from kababayan and shared expereinced , have problem about visa almost 4 weeks still waiting . Can somedy shared expereinced about applying visa : How long it takes be ready . Bored talaga mag antay mabuti kung meron Visa. It say 21 days but no text or email till now. Kahit cal mo sila dedma lang sila kaya sayang alng ang pera..

]]> Comment on Our Song by Maria http://www.bizarremarriage.com/index.php/2009/09/21/our-song/comment-page-1/#comment-9507 Maria Mon, 19 Sep 2011 11:18:50 +0000 http://www.bizarremarriage.com/?p=113#comment-9507 VERY beautiful couple. I salute you! VERY beautiful couple. I salute you!

]]> Comment on Marrying for Money by Maria http://www.bizarremarriage.com/index.php/2008/09/18/marrying-for-money/comment-page-1/#comment-9495 Maria Sun, 18 Sep 2011 15:00:38 +0000 http://www.bizarremarriage.com/?p=58#comment-9495 Its ashamed, i have seen many of young Filipinas with looking like their grand father foreigner partner all over the country,I sometimes asking to myself WHY, HOW...However there are few gatherings i been to who the couples with young and older foreigner guy seems to be "content" Anyway I have a foreign fiancee myself but his at the age of 32 and I am 27 but still sometimes I kinda think of what other people might be thinking about us walking hand in hand,sweet and well...we know the judge mental people in PH. Its ashamed, i have seen many of young Filipinas with looking like their grand father foreigner partner all over the country,I sometimes asking to myself WHY, HOW…However there are few gatherings i been to who the couples with young and older foreigner guy seems to be “content”
Anyway I have a foreign fiancee myself but his at the age of 32 and I am 27 but still sometimes I kinda think of what other people might be thinking about us walking hand in hand,sweet and well…we know the judge mental people in PH.

]]> Comment on love moves mysteriously by Maria http://www.bizarremarriage.com/index.php/2010/12/20/love-moves-mysteriously/comment-page-1/#comment-9494 Maria Sun, 18 Sep 2011 14:27:09 +0000 http://www.bizarremarriage.com/?p=174#comment-9494 VERY nice! I am in a long distance relationship myself and now pregnant,not married yet but hoping before the baby is born. His from Belgium and well I am from PH obviously it is VERY difficult and sometimes i am kinda losing all hopes. Already been in his country,met his parents and well he come visit me almost every 3 months but we cant live like this forever. I do miss him VERY much that i cant even explain, its like it means more than the words itself :D We have to be together. I will continue reading your blog and congratulations! VERY nice! I am in a long distance relationship myself and now pregnant,not married yet but hoping before the baby is born. His from Belgium and well I am from PH obviously it is VERY difficult and sometimes i am kinda losing all hopes. Already been in his country,met his parents and well he come visit me almost every 3 months but we cant live like this forever. I do miss him VERY much that i cant even explain, its like it means more than the words itself :D We have to be together.

I will continue reading your blog and congratulations!

]]> Comment on Getting Married in Austria by vikrant http://www.bizarremarriage.com/index.php/2008/04/10/getting-married-in-austria/comment-page-1/#comment-9472 vikrant Fri, 16 Sep 2011 10:24:04 +0000 http://www.bizarremarriage.com/?p=30#comment-9472 HI, 1) I am from India; I got married to Austrian citizen in India. She is on X visa & living with me in India. We both were planning to move Austria. We have Apostille & it’s registered in Austria. So my marriage is legal in Austria. But i would like to know how I can apply for Austrian Stay permit. 2) I am working as an operation manager in India for IT Company. I am not that much familiar with German. What are the chances I will have for Austria? Can you guide please. HI,

1) I am from India; I got married to Austrian citizen in India. She is on X visa & living with me in India. We both were planning to move Austria. We have Apostille & it’s registered in Austria. So my marriage is legal in Austria. But i would like to know how I can apply for Austrian Stay permit.

2) I am working as an operation manager in India for IT Company.
I am not that much familiar with German. What are the chances I will have for Austria? Can you guide please.

]]> Comment on Getting Married in Austria by El Sol http://www.bizarremarriage.com/index.php/2008/04/10/getting-married-in-austria/comment-page-1/#comment-9416 El Sol Sun, 11 Sep 2011 18:36:50 +0000 http://www.bizarremarriage.com/?p=30#comment-9416 Hello, Vienna, I am a Nigerian and had an Austrian Girl friend. We met in Nigeria and we want to come over and live in Austria. I have visited her family in 2009 and am visiting them again now for one month. She said we could not marry because she is a student and had no means of supporting me financially. So my question is :is it not possible for us to marry in Austria because she is a student and had no financial means...second what will be your suggestion for me to do to live with her in Austria cause distance relationship is killing. thanks El sol Hello,
Vienna, I am a Nigerian and had an Austrian Girl friend. We met in Nigeria and we want to come over and live in Austria. I have visited her family in 2009 and am visiting them again now for one month. She said we could not marry because she is a student and had no means of supporting me financially. So my question is :is it not possible for us to marry in Austria because she is a student and had no financial means…second what will be your suggestion for me to do to live with her in Austria cause distance relationship is killing.
thanks
El sol

]]> Comment on about something my husband said by Chelo @ Home & Bahay http://www.bizarremarriage.com/index.php/2011/03/22/about-something-my-husband-said/comment-page-1/#comment-9288 Chelo @ Home & Bahay Thu, 01 Sep 2011 11:07:50 +0000 http://www.bizarremarriage.com/?p=220#comment-9288 You know what's one thing I really dislike. And in my opinion, so demeaning sa mga Filipina? Have you ever seen those Google Ads that says something like "Filipina Wife/Fiance" and has pictures Pinay in Swimwear!? Good post, Myla! You know what’s one thing I really dislike. And in my opinion, so demeaning sa mga Filipina? Have you ever seen those Google Ads that says something like “Filipina Wife/Fiance” and has pictures Pinay in Swimwear!? Good post, Myla!

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